Connie was terrified! She had volunteered to speak before worship about a wonderful program in our congregation that is just getting started. Her speaking fears were immense but her belief in the program was stronger so she agreed to present a Mission Moment at the beginning of the service about the program.
I am still not sure exactly what happened but I ended up holding her hand during the entire presentation. I introduced her and realizing how nervous she was, gave her an encouraging hug. The next thing I knew, I was standing by her and holding her hand. In 40 years of ministry, this was a first. She said all the right things as we stood together.
Afterwards, I kept thinking about how important our ministry of presence can be. Just being there and holding hands, giving a hug or sharing tears can often be more supportive than any words. Holding Connie’s hand will always be my excellent reminder to not worry about the perfect words but that God can be present even when we say nothing—a ministry of presence.



